Listen to Life: And Alive

“…AND ALIVE.”


She threw herself a birthday party this past weekend with a simple theme: "35 and alive." As much as I appreciated the invitation to attend, I more appreciated the meaning of the theme to her. And to everyone.

I first met Stephanie about five years ago after she left an abusive marriage and attended a creative workshop that I conducted for a women's shelter in the area. As she moved through her life's transitions, she put her thoughts into words and images, some of which appeared in exhibitions and the newspaper. I suppose that eight years ago she felt scared and desperate, with a child and in an abusive home. The day of the party showed a different scene--one of a courageous woman with a contagious smile who laughed while telling stories of her two part-time jobs, full-time school schedules and more.

The message -- the theme of her party -- carries a poignant reminder. No matter your age, you're still alive. That is reason enough to celebrate, bring your family and friends together, and share food and laughter.

Each of us has times of darkness, frustration, pain and discomfort, as well as joy, passion, enthusiasm and love. These are all part of being alive. Each day gives us cause to proclaim to others and ourselves, "35 (40, 45, 50, 60, 70, 80..) and alive." Each day provides a chance to improve our circumstances, to invite others into our journey, and to celebrate.

Happy birthday, Stephanie.


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Listen to Life is an electronic newsletter that presents lessons for living by listening to life, based on the writing, poetry, photography, presentations and workshops of Dion McInnis. Stories such as these inspired the book, “Listen to Life: Wisdom in Life’s Stories,” published in 2005, available at Barnes and Noble, Amazon and Borders. Dion’s next book will share his views of being father and son. To subscribe, send an email to: addnewsletter@dionmcinnis.com. To be removed from the subscription list, send email to:unsubscribe@dionmcinnis.comWeb link: www.dionmcinnis.com© 2007 Dion McInnis. All rights reserved.We encourage sharing Listen to Life in whole or in part if copyright and attribution are always included. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++